Celebrating 60 years together

by karoline on October 23, 2014

60th anniversary10 years ago, I flew down to St. Louis with my then boyfriend to meet his entire family.  We had only been dating about 5 months, but things were serious already.  My first encounter with the Anschutz/ Goodnick clan would be at the 50th anniversary celebration for B’s grandparents.  At the time, I was fresh out of culinary school and working 2 jobs: one as a baker at Julius Meinl (an Austrian coffee shop in Chicago) and the other as the fish cook at the very fancy Ambria (a Spanish/ French fusion restaurant that has sadly since been retired).  The cake for this celebration was purchased from a local shop and transported to the event — unassembled —  in the trunk of B’s mom’s car.  Of course, the layers slid around and crashed together, leaving them less than desirable upon arrival.  My MIL looked to me to fix the disaster.  She handed me a rubber spatula and a can of Pillsbury frosting.  With rookie baking skills and no stores open in their tiny town, there was little I could do.  I was humiliated.  She ended up slapping some baby’s breath in front of the damage and calling it a day, but I was scarred.  I was supposed to be a baker.  Why couldn’t I have fixed the cake?

elegant anniversary cake

Fast forward 10 years, and B and I have been happily married for 8.5 years ourselves.  I no longer feel the need to impress the clan, who are now part of my family.  We have a crazy intense toddler and one on the way.  And, we live a 5-hour drive from the location of the 60th anniversary celebration.  But, I just couldn’t help myself.  I had to volunteer to make the cake for the party.  10 years of embarrassment would be remedied with fancy cake for the 60th.  Well, it didn’t quite turn out that way.  Life was crazy leading up to our trip down south & I am TIRED.  I stressed big time about the cake surviving transport all the way down there.  Still, I assembled the cake, packed the car carefully, and drove like a nun with precious cargo.  We made it in one piece without even a scuff.  When I saw the flowers that were intended to dress up a very plain cake and hide the imperfections, I cringed.  The roses were huge and would have looked best on a cake 4 times the size of mine.  With no other choice, I pouted and sulked — I’m blaming the pregnancy hormones — and sent B to the store to find better flowers.  Of course, we weren’t in the teeny town of Staunton this time, and there were stores actually open, but our options were quite limited.  I did what I could with a slew of white daisies and sat down lamenting the fact that I could not have a drink to take the edge off.

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Still, the cake was a hit.  Everybody loved the super smooth buttercream and the extra sweet raspberry filling.  (Few party guests opted for slices of the store bought birthday cake that accompanied mine on the dessert table.)  And, what really matters here anyway?  Two people got the chance to celebrate 60 years of life together with their family and friends.  They were surrounded by their 3 daughters, 6 grandchildren, and 2 great-grandchildren.  I’d say that’s what counts.  How many of us will even be lucky enough to make it to 60 years together?  B’s grandparents were young when they married (one barely 20 and the other in her teens), not like modern couples who wait till their late 20s or even 30s to tie the knot.  Just living that long — and not killing each other — is reason enough to celebrate.  Congratulations, Carol and Dean.  I know I am sure grateful for your time together since without it, I wouldn’t have that sweet, sweet O or my awesome hubby.


Corey’s 1st birthday (lion smash cake)

by karoline on October 17, 2014

lion smash cakeMy college roommate is still one of my favorite people in the whole world.  So, when her son turned one, I was eager to make his smash cake.  Corey’s mom selected a jungle theme for the party, and I sent her a bunch of photos on Pinterest so she could pick out a style that she liked.  This is the one she chose:

Lion Birthday Cake by cakeheaven1, via Flickr

I came pretty close, right?  Well, we won’t see it on “Nailed it” anyway.  (She also favored this lion cake, but I wanted to try out a new style.)

first birthday

As a general rule, we should probably stop singing “Happy Birthday” to one year olds.  They don’t seem to enjoy it very much.

smash cake

Corey recovered nicely and after a few minutes snuggling with his mama, he was more than ready to dig into his very own cake.

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He REALLY got into it (not like this birthday girl).

smash cake

Seriously, I don’t think I have ever seen a more enthusiastic smasher (though this birthday boy came close and my own O did a pretty destructive job at her smash cake photo session).

smash cake

He was even giving out high-fives to his cousins, who wanted in on the mess!

smash cake destruction

That was one enthusiastic kid!  It was worth every second of my efforts to see this little/ not-so-little guy attack that cake.  Congrats to his mommy and daddy on surviving the first year and raising such an incredible boy!


What’s cooking…

by karoline on October 4, 2014

white chocolate chip cookiesAs a food stylist who works from home, people often wonder about what it is that I do for a living.  It is easiest conceptualized in photos.  I cook and bake in my own kitchen, in the process creating an extraordinary mess, and then attempt to make it look appetizing and beautiful in a photo.   I pull from my vast collection of props (thank God for basements), and set up my photo near a window or in a shaded area outside.  I’ve selected a few of my recent favorites for your viewing pleasure.  Easier said than done sometimes.   When I sell a photo, I no longer own the rights to it.  So, these are not the exact images that have been sold, but they are from the same photo sessions as many of my pictures that appear in the Boston Globe.  (When possible, I will included links to recipes, but several of these have not yet been published.)  This first is white chocolate chip cookies with walnuts and dried cranberries.  They were eagerly gobbled up by my hungry family just as soon as I set down the camera.

Tandoori chicken

This photo of tandoori chicken is a rare example of when my editor and I disagree.  Pictured here was my absolute favorite shot from the series, but it is not the one that she chose.  Ah, well, I’ll keep the rights to it. (And, it is entirely possible that her well-trained eye is seeing something that I am not.)

plum frangipane tart

Is there anything more elegant than a simple, fruit tart?  This version is filled with plum and hazelnuts.

sloppy joes

Something about this Sloppy Joe is very, very appealing….though the one pictured here is also appetizing.

dutch baby

I find desserts that include fresh fruit to be the easiest dishes to photograph.  They are innately beautiful, just like this Dutch baby with fresh cherries.

apple crisp

Continuing with the fresh fruit theme, I think I have made my point, though I enjoy the photo of apple crisp more from the angle she chose.

udon noodle soup

Understated elegance in soup form: udon noodles with miso broth.

I do LOVE my job.


Happy Birthday, Daddy!

by karoline on October 4, 2014

cupcakes, toddlersBen made the usual request for his birthday, this year…anything with coconut.  Lately, though, he has requested chocolate along with his coconut.  A few years back, prior to the chocolate requests, I went with a simple white cake and the obligatory coconut.  Then, he requested German chocolate.  I obliged, and disguised it in the form of a White Sox cake.  Last year, we had a giant housewarming party for his birthday, so I kept things simple and baked my favorite chocolate cupcakes (from Joanne Chang’s Flour cookbook) and topped them with cream cheese-coconut frosting (try this version from Southern Living).  They were so popular that Ben’s cousin’s fiancee requested them for her bridal shower, and Ben asked for them again this year.  The best part?  They couldn’t be easier.  So, even when this tired and pregnant mama has her hands full, we can still find time to make Daddy happy.

baking with toddlers

As a teenager, my go-to babysitting tactic was to bring the kids into the kitchen with me.  Aside from that, I was pretty much useless with the little ones.  We went to the park and watched lots of movies, but the real fun was had when the mixer and the oven were running.  I have been waiting more than 2 years for O to be ready to help me in the kitchen, and it seems the time has come.  When she heard we were making cupcakes for Daddy, she couldn’t get to the kitchen fast enough.  I may have mentioned it, but she was a very active participant in Sylvia’s cupcakes and Eloise’s beach ball cookies.  This time, though, she was ready for the big leagues: using a piping bag to do the frosting.  Since they were just for Dad, I was happy to give her free reign.

baking with toddlers

Of course, if I ever caught a pro holding a pastry bag like this, I’d cringe, but you can’t expect much more from a toddler.  They just aren’t strong enough to do it one-handed.  She was SO very proud of herself.  My heart just melted.  She kept asking, “Mommy, does ‘is’ one ‘yook’ good?”

baking with toddlers

Of course, no cupcake is complete without sprinkles- at least not in O’s mind.  She probably ate more than she got on the cupcakes, and I’ll be cleaning them off the floor for months….but, the end result was worth it.

chocolate coconut cupcakes

Of course, I couldn’t let her have all the fun.  So, I piped a few myself.  Before she went to bed, O left out one cupcake on a plate alongside a handmade card and a glass of brown liquor (poured by mom).  Pretty good, right?


Beach ball cookies

by karoline on September 22, 2014

beach ball cookies

Our good friend, E, turned 2 this week and had a fabulous party at The Water Works indoor water park in Schaumburg.  Since pizza, cake and ice cream were included with the party, I offered to bring some beach ball cookies as party favors.

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I thought these would be easy peasy, but it turned out that drawing the curved lines freehand was kind of tricky.  It is much easier to follow the outline of whatever shape you choose and then fill the cookie with one solid color and add details once that base layer has dried.  Overall, though, they were quite adorable and well received once packaged.  One thing that I learned right away was to pipe and flood all of the white spaces first before adding any color.  Then, by the time I was ready to fill in the sides, the white had dried sufficiently enough to form a crisp barrier.  If you attempt to add the colors before the white dries, you will not only be working inefficiently — always work assembly line style — but the color will bleed slightly into the white, and you won’t have a well defined border between the panels.

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The birthday girl was really only interested in eating ice cream…but we could have guessed that from last year’s cake fiasco.  hahaha.

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O was happy to join the sweet eating fun as well.

Happy birthday, E!  We love you!

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A look back through portraits

by karoline on September 18, 2014

infant portrait, lakesideI spent the morning searching for a professional photographer who A. is available on apparently short notice (2 months) and B. is a more skilled photographer than I am who can give me a series of artsy, creative family maternity photos.  After hours of research and MANY phone calls, I finally found Bright Eye Photography, and I am SO very excited for our November shoot.  In doing all this research, I started thinking about what I really want from our photo shoot.  Now, I am not a PRO, but I have taken some seriously gorgeous photos of my little one.  I typically don’t hire photographers to do our photos since I think I do an adequate job of capturing the memories myself.  So, when I hire a photog, I want their work to be better than mine.  I want them to use techniques that an amateur like myself hasn’t figured out and have a more creative eye with an artsy flair for composition and prop use.  I think Stephanie will be able to do that for me and capture the emotions behind that ethereal phase of life known as pregnancy, one that we had to work REALLY hard for.

All that aside, thinking about portraits made me want to gather up all of my favorite shots of O that I have taken since she was born.  The first was taken in late July/ early August 2012 at Nevins Lake in Michigan.  God, I love that smile and that little bald head.

lake geneva, infant portrait

This one was shot lakeside in Lake Geneva, WI in August, 2012.  The girl couldn’t keep her fingers out of her mouth.  Love how she seems bashful or a little bit shy, hiding behind those chubby little hands.

pumpkin patch photo

In October 2o12, we traveled to WI again for pumpkin picking and fall festivities.  We had a hard time getting her to look at the camera since she was SO distracted by everything else.  A watch?  OOH! SHINY!  I love this background, how the tree frames the edge and how it almost looks like she’s sitting in front of a painting.

baby's first christmas

Those wonky front teeth had really come in by December 2012.  Nothing captures joy more than the look on a child’s face at Christmas time.  The lighting is super flat here, though.  I really have to work on my indoor skills.

smash cake

First birthdays are for smashing cakes, and in January 2013, that’s exactly what we did.

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This was one of my first forays into attempting to set up a scene for a photo.  It is WAY harder than most PROS make it look.  Still, we got a couple of real keepers.

daffodil glade, morton arboretum

The Morton Arboretum has been one of our favorite places for photos.  In May 2013, we really took advantage of the daffodil glade in full bloom.  Love the wonder and perplexity on her face, all from one little, yellow petal.

kohl childrens museum

Still not a lot of hair by May 2013, but she did have a full set of mismatched teeth, gorgeous blue eyes, and a real zest for water play.

morton arboretum

There is a huge gap here from May of 2013 to May 2014.  The reason behind that is that from about 18 months until 27 months or so, I found it really hard to get a great photo of O.  She was not willing to sit for the camera, and she was CONSTANTLY on the move.  We have a lot of blurred memories!  After her 2nd birthday, she began to calm down a little and would actually cooperate when I wanted to take her picture (occasionally).  I think newborns and infants are way easier than toddlers.

michigan city, IN

Here is the rare shot involving more than just 1 adorable munchkin.  I took this photo in Michigan City, IN in July 2014.  O is with 2 of her grandparents at the beach.  I really liked the shot at first glance, but I love it even more now that a family member was able to Photoshop out a few distracting people in the water.


How large a tomato looks in the hands of a little tot…Eckerts near St. Louis was the spot for some gorgeous shots in August 2o14.

gender reveal

My cupcake connoisseur in September 2014, overjoyed with the new found knowledge that she is going to be a big sister.

family portrait

Like I said earlier, there are times when I want to be on the other side of the lens.  For that, you must trust a skilled professional.  I included a few of the highlights of our professional portraits.  This is one of my all-time favorite photos.  It was shot by Patricia Anderson in February 2012, and it is by far the best photo ever taken of us.  I find it particularly hard to compose photos with 3 or more people.  This is so natural, so perfectly cropped and really captures all of the wonder and excitement of having your first baby. (You can’t even tell I was hemorrhaging and headed to the hospital for an emergency D&C.  But that’s a story for another day…LOL)

family portrait

In October 2013, we hired Tami to do our holiday card photos.  Here’s when I really learned how hard it is to pose 3 people who are not natural “posers”.  (Plus, this was before I discovered Pinterest, where you can steal the creative ideas of others when you don’t have any of your own!)  We really struggled to get a great shot, but in the end, I decided I liked how much FUN this picture showed & it was last year’s Christmas card.

mother and daughter

This is the last shot Tami took at that session, and she really knocked it out of the park.  I asked her to find a way to capture how much I ADORE my little girl (and vice versa).  This photo shows all of the wonderful things about motherhood and leaves you thinking there must never be a bad moment between us.  I will forever cherish this image.

I absolutely cannot wait to take our next family photos.  Nothing makes me happier than to be able to look back on all these good times and know that we really do have a wonderful life.


Girl Baby!

September 8, 2014

Our 2.5 year old daughter is absolutely gaga over little girl babies.  Suffice it to say, she doesn’t carry quite the same affection for boy babies.  Prior to 12 weeks, we had not wanted to tell her I was pregnant for fear that we would have to explain it if something went wrong.  Hopefully, we […]

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Window seat

September 8, 2014

A while back, when we were scrounging for items to sell at our garage sale, a friend found this piece on the curb.  I wish I had a “before” shot, but I don’t ;(  It was hideous.  It was a cheap, very abused coffee table.  It was faded, stained, and splintering, and somebody’s kid had […]

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Coming Soon…

September 7, 2014

2 years trying to conceive, 1 miscarriage, 2 D&Cs, 2 hysteroscopies, 1 failed IUI, and 1 very successful round of IVF… It seems as if we have finally arrived!  Continued prayers and positive thoughts for a healthy pregnancy and a safe delivery.

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